Wednesday, April 25, 2018

Dear ECS: Look how it is so pretty


Hey honey, it has been a bit too long since I last wrote.  My apologies, but at least the reason is a good one.  We have been too busy. The last six weeks has been such a whirlwind, and through it all you have been up for whatever comes your/our way, very resilient in a period of dynamism for the korol family. 

We just got back from a fun weekend trip to Lalibela with a college buddy of mine. Lalibela is one of the tourist gems in Ethiopia with rock churches carved a millennium ago in terrain that is akin to the southwest in the US.  Before that, you and I spent almost three weeks in the US, seeing family and friends. And before that your Babas (my parents) were visiting for another almost three weeks.  Add it all up and  we have been either on the go or hosting loved ones for over six weeks.


I was struck by a moment this weekend, as you took in the sweeping views from our hotel in Lalibela.  Mom and I were settling into the hotel room and you went out on the veranda to take in the view.  And what a site, with ridges extending for dozens of miles down a large river valley, raptors swooping around our room and a big chunk of this bountiful world in front of you.  Your response to this splendor was telling of your rapid emotional development over the last several months – as the response was the same as your nearly forty year old old dad – “Look how it is so pretty.”  This appreciation of beauty, which a few minutes later you correctly placed as in Africa, would not have happen when we arrived in Addis Ababa in 2017, probably not even as 2017 turned to 2018.  But your wonderful, agile and active mind now processes beauty.  Which is a good thing because you have sure been to a lot of beautiful places in the last almost year in Ethiopia and there are many more to come in our remaining year here.

I saw your joy and delight in life so many times over our trip to the US, which sadly left Muriel back in Addis while we gallivanted in Salt Lake, North Carolina and Frankfurt.  Mu couldn’t get the time off for this long trip, which is understandable.  So it was a daddy/daughter extravagance.  I loved everything about our trip together, even the epicly long travel.  Because it was with you.

So about our US time, which was split between Salt Lake and North Carolina.

Utah
We spent most of our time in Utah, with your dad catching the tail end of the ski season and us getting to spend a ton of time with friends and family.  Being able to double up like that is right in your dad’s wheelhouse.  We stayed with dear friends in Park City who have an adorable 4 months old.  This 'little sis' allowed you to really focus on your burgeoning nurturing instincts --between your ‘little sis’ or your stuffed animal babies and wanting to take care of them, I like your style.  We also got to see a ton of our family who live throughout Utah Valley.  Seeing grandparents, aunts, uncles and cousins is very special for a kiddo living overseas.



For dad, the skiing was pretty good, mostly spring conditions with a little of the re-freeze action happening on most days.  So there was not a huge incentive to get to the hill earlier.  Once things softened up on the mountain, then it was fun corn skiing.  I was also able to get in some really nice trail runs in the Wasatch range--it is kind of surprising how much I have come to love that sport.  One fun run was when you strapped yourself in the jogging stroller and we hit the Round Valley trails.  


I was not the only one to strap on skis--we were able to borrow some gear for you and hit the slopes together.  This is the combination of two of my all time favorite activities, and it is very cool how your ski skills have progressed ski trip by ski trip.  Sometimes I worry that our life in places not at all like Utah, where skiing is impossible, will make it hard for me to share the love your mom and I feel for the sport.  But based on this trip, you are trending in the right direction, as the idea of skiing appealing to you this trip.  It helps to take cool bubble gondolas and the amazing spring weather for scooting around on the snow.   The last ski day you had was at the Olympic Park, which celebrates skiing and the 2002 Olympics: https://utaholympiclegacy.org/activity/museums-at-utah-olympic-park/.  

Photo credit - Elle
North Carolina
After almost two weeks in Park City we decamped for the Triangle region of North Carolina where mom and dad met at Duke.  We stayed with my buddy Kris and saw a ton of Duke friends who were in town for their ten-year reunion.  Another function of living overseas is that you try to maximize seeing loved ones and we certainly achieved a very high rate for our long weekend.  The Triangle is doing so well, with great food and drink options proliferating everywhere, with some beloved standbys that have made it through the intervening decade and in some cases improved. 


On the way to the airport, we stopped in at the North Carolina Art Museum for this amazing installation called “You Are Here” - http://ncartmuseum.org/exhibition/you_are_here_light_color_and_sound_experiences.  This exhibit has a ton of immersive art installations that break down the fourth wall and either explicitly includes the viewer or engages the viewer in immersive environments.  The one that has stuck in your dad’s mind the longest is an infinity mirror rooms with a light show by Yayo Kusama called Light of Life.  This is a box hat has intricate mirrors that create infinite iterations of the light show, the viewer and whatever is inside the box.   The infinity ‘room’ is super cool for me as an adult and watching your amazement at this magical art creation, replicated to infinity within the box, was incredible.  I love travel for these kinds of discoveries, and it was a great idea of Kris’ to check out this exhibit on the way to the airport and the red eye to Germany.

Now we are back home and will be here for several weeks.  Your precociousness gets more delightful everyday and I am so looking forward to being together as a family for the next several weeks.

Love you honey,
dad