Thursday, August 16, 2018

Dear ECS: Welcome back to whole family


Dear ECS,

Welcome back to Addis Ababa to you and your lovely mom!  You guys just got back from 2+ weeks in America with our family and friends.  The return has been wonderful, for all concerned, including your nannies and our driver.  Several of them have said over the last couple of days how happy you are and how happy that makes them to see you joyous upon returning home. 


I am pretty confident you are happy to be back, as last night we were hanging out by the fire and you looked mischievously at mom and me and said “I am SO happy right now” followed by the gem of “I love whole family.”  Me too, and I wish I could have told you those feelings in me, and your mom, in such a succinct and perfect statement.



Being apart was not great for your ol’ dad, but at this point it is a kind of normal.  And knowing that you were having such a great time in Germany, Colorado, Utah, and Maine made things easier.  That would have been quite the year for me as a 3 year old, but for you it is just August.  Or just part of August.


Your trip to America was ameliorated for me by doing some travel as well in the region, first a great group trip back to the Tigray region of Ethiopia with stunning rock churches and huge vistas.  In Tigray, we ate great food and observed a blood moon in a place with basically no light pollution.  

A personal highlight was standing on the edge of this huge cliff overlooking miles and miles and having this primal urge to scream from every fiber of my being.  So I did.  And that feeling has stayed with me somehow for the last 3+ weeks.  Pretty cool.  And then last weekend I went on a solo trip to Uganda, mostly because I had never been there and heard good things. Also because your mom had been already and was not super keen on going back when we still have a lot of new places to explore. 

Uganda vs Morocco rugby match 
It is funny to look at the calendar and see we are half way through August.  Where did the summer go?  Part of that probably comes from the fact that “summer” in Addis is the rainy season and hence doesn’t feel summery most of the time.  The summer here is more like the other 9 months.  But also it is time passing quickly, for pretty much great reasons of adventures big and small, great community and friends for you and your parents, fulfilling work for mom and dad, and stability at home. 

We are past our halfway point in Addis and looking in earnest about what is next.  That process still has to play out, but I can remember so clearly you and I arriving in Addis the first night way back in June of 2017, getting off the airplane and eventually to our house.  To this very living room where I write this with the fire crackling, and so many fond memories for all of us.  None of us knew what to expect and what was to come here in Ethiopia.  And now we are closer to the end of our time here than the beginning.  I would love to know how you perceive time at your tender age of three and whether it feels like a long time here in Addis Ababa.  That seems fundamentally unanswerable, but we do know you have been living life to the fullest and enjoying your life here in Africa.  Your mom and dad can certainly say the same. Whole family.

love,
dad